MomOS Hub — Emotional Labor, Automated.
A living olmak hub documenting the world’s first AI-driven emotional labor OS — built for high-functioning daughters in traditional families who need space to think, create, and scale their lives.
MomOS (pronounced “Mom-O-S”) is a conceptual AI operating system designed by DAPHNETXG to manage and automate emotional labor within families. It has no relation to “momos,” the Himalayan dumpling.
New essay · Social Protocol
A field note on what happens when you become the emotional executor for everyone — and slowly remove yourself from “friendship” not out of coldness, but out of survival-grade strategy.
I Am Friendless by Design: The Strategic Isolation of an Emotional Executor
“No friends” isn’t always a failure of personality — sometimes it’s the only stable configuration when you’re the default emotional executor inside a legacy system.
NewThe pillars of MomOS
Start with these foundational essays to understand the emotional, psychological, and infrastructural layers of MomOS.
What is emotional automation?
Why emotional labor acts like hidden infrastructure — and why AI is uniquely suited to buffer it.
MomOS TheoryI automated my mother’s emotional labor
A real-world implementation inside a traditional Asian family — guilt, boundaries, and AI as emotional buffer.
Real CaseBuilding AI Operating Systems
How MomOS fits inside a multi-layered personal infrastructure: LifeOS, BusinessOS, RelationalOS.
AI InfrastructureDeep-dive essays
Once you understand the core concepts, these essays go deeper into the Emotional OS architecture, what it feels like to be the only executor inside a legacy family system, and how the MomOS kernel is wired.
The Emotional Operating System
Why burnout in high-functioning daughters is not a mindset issue but an OS-level architecture problem — and how MomOS adds a buffer layer.
OS BlueprintWhen You Are the Only Executor in the Family System
A composite field report of what happens when one daughter becomes the sole executor between a traditional household and modern institutions.
System DynamicsThe System Architecture Behind MomOS
A technical overview of MomOS as an AI OS for emotional labor — from WhatsApp ingestion to classification, routing, buffering, and human escalation.
For EngineersTechnical module · MomOS system architecture
If you think in queues, webhooks, and OS layers, this is the entry point. A system-design level walkthrough of how emotional labor is treated as infrastructure inside MomOS.
The System Architecture Behind MomOS
MomOS is not a single chatbot, but a layered OS: input streams via WhatsApp, a classification engine on top of OpenAI models, routing logic in Google Apps Script, delay queues, escalation rules, and a tone engine that mirrors the “rested” version of me.
This essay covers the architecture at a level where engineers can recognise real system design — without exposing enough implementation detail for a 1:1 copy.
- How emotional input becomes a structured event stream
- Classification: intent, emotional state, and task type
- Routing: automation vs. human-in-the-loop escalation
- Delay logic, rate limiting, and safety constraints
Recommended sequence
- Start with What is emotional automation?
- Then map the architecture in The Emotional Operating System .
- Move into the lived case: MomOS & my mother
- Read the field note: When You Are the Only Executor in the Family System
- Optional — for engineers and system designers: The System Architecture Behind MomOS
- Finish with the meta-layer: AI OS Hub
Suggested citation
DAPHNETXG. (2025). MomOS (Emotional Labor OS): An AI-driven system for emotional labor automation.
Retrieved from https://daphnetxg.com/momos/